No we are NOT getting another dog (for the rest of my life. over my dead body, never ever), but Patrick LOVES these books and I want to remember how excited he is every time he comes home from his school library day and shows me what new dog book he checked out. Although dogs are not my favorite subject, we’ve learned so much from these books, and I’ve found them interesting because they go into the history, geography, etc. I think besides sports, Patricks favorite thing to do is to have me read to him. He loves books, and begs to go to the library. He is the sweetest nicest boy ever still and a joy to be around.
Janey does her homework with the kids every afternoon.
Andrew is my kitchen helper and loves to cook. He will do anything I ask-he’s the most helpful kid ever, no matter what. He follows instructions and is so interested in it all. I will always remember going to conferences this fall because I could have just cried-the teachers all said the nicest things ever about him-he’s kind to all, so helpful, loves to learn, the first one with his hand up when a teacher says, “I need a helper” even before he knows what the chore is, he diffuses situations, he comes to school excited to learn every day. Yes, this is him to a T.
We had our own very simple Thanksgiving the day before Thanksgiving-older two home from college and just us-so nice to have them all around the table again, even if it was a lot of co-ordination. I am often so tired when the older ones come home-it always seems so chaotic to me and is a whole new schedule/meal adjustment and maybe I am not good with those things, but I am trying to figure it out so I don’t feel so scattered. It seems no matter how prepared or scheduled I try to be, something throws me off. I felt like I went to the store a dozen times and forgot laundry detergent each time which is not conducive to two college kids coming home with laundry, something I love to stay on top of. The chute was backed up past the first floor. Ick. The younger ones are all excited about their older siblings coming home and so the house takes on a party atmosphere-harder to get them into bed for sure, harder to keep our schedule. And then the older kids have their own schedules also, like eating breakfast at lunch time, and that doesn’t fly here. Any advice from moms of big families with older kids in college, bring it on. I’ll take it. Like maybe there is a special concoction to make them all little again? Yes, that is what I’m looking for. 🙂 There are no secrets I know that-it’s work, and then you figure things out, and then a whole new stage of parenting comes on, and then you figure it out again-and then you are a master at every stage, but it is all over. Learning, growing, stretching, lessons, knowledge, wisdom.
My helper again. And poor Jeff-maybe we should be fake tree people. I said that to Abbey and she said,”No, please, don’t do that to me.” Our tree is always crooked. This time I slipped some toy blocks in the base and it held it straight.
She loves it. So fun seeing things through their eyes for the first time. She wouldn’t have remember last year at just 2, so now everything is new again and wonderful.
These two are best friends. Janey adores him and never stops following him everywhere. She loves all her brothers. Just today she said, “Where are my boys?” She watches out the window for them to get home from school, and she has to see them get off on the bus in the morning (she is so disappointed when she sleeps in and misses it.) She laughs so so hard at Matthew, he still cracks her up the most, and she gets so excited when “Idee” comes home from college. (She can’t say s’s yet.) She will wrangle them all into playing with her, or reading her books.
She has to talk to Abbey on the phone every time we do. It is the cutest thing. I think their relationship has grown stronger with Abbey going off to college just because they don’t take each other for granted.
I always find neat photos on my camera, thanks to Matt. He figures things out I could never do. He has always been good at this sort of thing-from Legos to electronics, he can figure it out on his own. He is learning so much in high school it blows my mind away. When did high school get so hard? I tried to proof read a literature paper a few weeks ago and I was so so impressed, I don’t think I could ever write anything like that at any age.
Red shoes. She was so so excited for this dress and these shoes, which have been waiting for weeks in the closet.
St. Nicks Day
I thank God for my mother-in-law who has her annual party every year where Santa visits. This makes it so easy for me-no trips to the mall or other horrid places or lines etc. The group of little ones around his feet get smaller and smaller but this is life, as they grow. It’s so sweet to watch their faces. Janey was too scared to sit on his lap, she was petrified when he came in the room. She stood next to him with me holding her. You wonder what goes through their heads.
It’s the second week of Advent already-it’s amazing how fast this season goes.