I’ve been thinking about this beautiful essaywritten by Sally Clarkson concerning the teen years.
“Family culture is built from the time they are born into your home–the life that is crafted, takes years to perfect, but builds strong roots.
The point is, we have so much fun and life going on in our home and so many invisible threads from our hearts to our children’s, that the pull of home and the deep connections and friendships we share with our children is a stronger pull than that of the culture that would seek to draw them. Our family culture, values and commitment is much stronger and more satisfying to their souls than the lure of their culture. Our ties to each other are strong.”
Outside! What a beautiful gorgeous September week we’ve had! I love these days that still feel like summer, but have cooler evenings. The grass is still green, the trees are still full, and I’m going to pretend this will last forever. Janey and I have been taking walks and bike rides (her last year on the back of my bike maybe-it’s getting quite squishy.)
I had two hours to myself on Sunday and I stopped in at the candle store (one of my favorite things is to always have a scented candle burning) but I could not go for pumpkin and apple scents yet. I must ease myself into fall (because we all know what comes after right?) This is as far as I could push myself:
I loved this book and read it in two days. It reminds me a little of The Glass Castle in that it is a story of a childhood filled with terrible poverty and a desperate family life, but this takes place in Mexico and California. I will never forget this book and it made me think deeply about poverty and immigration and desperation and family life and work ethics and luck, chances, education-so much in here to think about.
PS. Thank you to the reader who suggested this book!
These were my favorite children’s books of the week:
A little owl is reluctant to leave the nest-beautiful illustrations and a sweet story.
A little duck waiting patiently for the birth of his little sibling. Janey really loved this one.
And one more book:
I bought a new cookbook at the bookstore on that little Sunday break (it’s this one:Southern Living Home Cooking Basics: A complete illustrated guide to Southern cooking) and I’m going to work myself through it just like Julie did with Julia. This is my attempt at escaping a summer long cooking rut. In spite of numerous soccer nights, I am DOING THIS. I must.
And a question answered from the last post:
Sarah, can you tell us your little “Libraries with little kids/babies 101” please? I have my first child, a 7 month old, and I would very much like to start going to the library with him. However, I’m hesitant about the etiquette and bringing a giggly baby into a quiet building.
Here is the way I work library visits:
1. Quickly. I hardly ever browse for myself, I order books through our on line library site and they notify me when they are in, and I grab them from the pile when I walk in the door. (Do all libraries do this? It is heaven!)
2. I try not to go when they have library story time. I know, that sounds awful, but the children’s area gets too busy and I want to teach my kids that the library isn’t for playing loudly, it’s for books and books only. (Which is why I say no to the kid’s computer table either-I say “libraries are for books”.)
BUT…I also know that is an excellent place to meet other parents when you are new to parenting and have little ones at home so I am not discouraging that, I just never really enjoyed the chaos.
When they are old enough to understand we talk about library etiquette, mainly being quiet because everyone is reading.
3. We choose our books, maybe I will let Janey play if it is quiet for a little while, but usually we don’t stay long. When I had more than one at home, I would let them (depending on age) go to their respective areas and choose what they wanted, trying to touch base with each one while I sat with the “baby” at the train table.
I hope that helps!