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Ordinary Days on Monday Morning

by Sarah Turner Clover Lane, Ordinary Days

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(A rare moment when every kid is in one room at the same time!)

Just a quick post because I have 15 minutes till I have to take Patrick to the doctor’s office for what I think might be swimmer’s ear.  That poor kid is tough and never complains about a thing, but is definitely under the weather.

I am counting the days till the addition is finished, but still trying to enjoy summer before it gets away which it always seems to.   I’m reminding myself that I am going to do the most basic things to make this house live-able and all the fun decorating stuff will have to wait till later when kids go back to school and I have the brain to process and ponder and make good choices.  The cleaning-I can’t wait to get my hands on every wall and baseboard and closet-it just seems pointless right now when they are sanding drywall.  Cough, cough.

I found this quote by Rachel Jancovic and I love it:

The whole essay ishere and wonderful.

Live the gospel in the things that no one sees. 

Sacrifice for your children in places that only they will know about. 

Put their value ahead of yours. 

Grow them up in the clean air of gospel living. 

Your testimony to the gospel in the little details of your life is more valuable to them than you can imagine. 

If you tell them the gospel, but live to yourself, they will never believe it. 

Give your life for theirs every day, joyfully. 

Lay down pettiness. 

Lay down fussiness. 

Lay down resentment about the dishes, about the laundry, about how no one knows how hard you work.


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  1. Denise says

    June 16, 2014 at 6:01 pm

    Sarah, what will the additional space be? Is it a sun room? We start a complete kitchen renovation right after Labor Day and I'm dreading it already. I've already put it off twice. I was going to attempt it this spring before my son's graduation. I'm so glad I didn't. It's stressful enough just with end of year activities. I love the quote!

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  2. marylynn says

    June 16, 2014 at 6:48 pm

    Love Rachel Jancovic! Thanks so much for sharing her essay. That quote is just what I needed today.

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  3. Anouk says

    June 16, 2014 at 10:12 pm

    That's an amazing picture, of them all together. A full table, something I'm dreaming of.

    The addition looks great, but I know the dust it comes with. Just hang in there, it'll be wonderful.

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  4. Clarina1985 says

    June 17, 2014 at 12:07 am

    I'm a big Rachel Jankovic fan! Thank you for sharing… Always find your blog so encouraging and honest and real. Love stopping by!

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  5. Susan says

    June 17, 2014 at 12:22 am

    What a great quote! So nice to see your family all together!! I have been thinking of you lately – I am going through my house making my list of projects I want to tackle this summer during the days when the kids are at camp…Right now I am working on one of our bathrooms. Joy of joys!

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  6. Unknown says

    June 17, 2014 at 1:19 am

    I'm excited to see your new kitchen and missing your blog posts:)

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  7. teamaldrich says

    June 17, 2014 at 1:50 am

    Whenever I'm out with our three boys (under 4 – we have twins), people say the craziest stuff! 99% of the time I truly smile and try to (humbly) say one of or some combination of, "I don't know a parent who isn't busy … I'm so grateful … We're so lucky … Three healthy children …" NOW I have the perfect response to the "hands-full" quip ๐Ÿ™‚

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  8. Haylee says

    June 17, 2014 at 3:54 am

    Can't wait to see the addition all finished! I have always loved your simple and practical, yet stunning, style of home decor and house stuff.

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  9. Jennifer says

    June 17, 2014 at 7:21 pm

    Such a sweet photo Sarah of all your children together…hoping all goes well with the new addition–I'm sure it will be beautiful!!

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  10. mmommo1 says

    June 23, 2014 at 3:11 am

    u r so wonderful, thank you.

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A lighter, fresher, calmer home is the result of de-cluttering.  I even had a participant who had been planning on listing her home, start 40 Days just to get her house ready to sell, and then was so ruthless in the process and also thrilled by the results that they decided to stay put in what seemed like a new home to them.  What a savings of time, money and energy. 
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Clip on bed lights save space. 
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A simple shared book shelf can hold a child's special books and knick knacks and if necessary can be assigned per shelf.
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When my kids were younger I had my dad build me a large wooden roll out box for under each bed.  This held each child's toys. 
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All clothes are kept in a closet instead of dressers to save space.
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More tips coming on the blog this week.  I am moving my blog platform so I can't make any promises - it's under construction and that's exciting!
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