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My Thoughts and Tips on Potty Training

by Sarah Turner Clover Lane

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Here has what has worked for me and my kiddos:

Between 2 years 3 months and 2 years 6 months, I potty train. I feel like it is some sort of magic age for learning to go on their own-a window of opportunity so to speak..

I plan ahead when I’m going to start. I make sure it an easy week, and I don’t do it right before a vacation or a new baby or any major change. I wait till things are calm and regular.

I get out potties or potty seats. It doesn’t matter. I set one in the upstairs and downstairs bathrooms and just let them get used to it. I am introducing it, totally casual.

We go shopping for new undies…I use the thicker trainer kind at first.

I have never used pull ups! Pull ups are the invention of a bunch of diaper executives to extend their profits as long as they can. I try to put myself in my child’s place-could I physically tell the difference between a diaper and a pull-up? Then how can I expect my child to? I think they need a change…the sensory aspects that trigger their brain to make them realize…oh boy, here it comes, I don’t have a diaper on anymore, I’ve got to GO! They don’t have time to ponder, ‘diaper or Pull up or undie’? They also have to feel icky. Feel very wet, or very poopy.

So we are ready to begin. I have diapers for night, but hide them. No more diapers is the die hard rule. NO MORE DIAPERS.

Once diapers are off and those big boy or girl pants are on, that’s it.  I don’t put one on when we go somewhere, take it off at home, back and forth.  Too confusing for them.

I  keep the child as naked as possible…just undies, or very light easy to pull up or down shorts. They have to see for themselves what happens and why it happens and what it feels like and they have to learn what to do after all those things.

I don’t do anything for that week or maybe two weeks if it is taking little longer. If I have to go somewhere, I pack an extra change of clothes, or wait till my husband gets home.

I will change maybe 4-15 undies those first days. (Abbey took 2 days, Andrew took 2 weeks.)  I am prepared for major laundry and don’t stress out about it.  I know I will be doing a load a day during that time.

I TRY TO NEVER EVER GET FRUSTRATED!  Yes, it takes major patience. I say, “Oh now you are wet, now we have to change.” Maybe I have them sit on the potty right after and explain that they need to put their pee and poop in the potty.  Never punish or be angry at a child potty-training-they are learning a new skill and that takes time.

It’s amazing from their perspective all that they have to learn. They have to recognize and tie their body and brain feelings all together and then take action. This is all new and they have to make that connection.  I don’t expect it to be all done in one day or two days.  It’s a process.

I ask them many many times if they have to go all day long. I have them sit off and on all day if they are willing that first week. If they go-joy! I make a big deal out of it, and we celebrate. Sometimes stickers, charts, rewards work. I think I did those with the first two.

So after they get it during the day, I find that they naturally get it at night too! It will take a couple more weeks than the daytime, that’s why I put a diaper on at night. When they wake up with a dry diaper, I know I am done! BUT, I have to be very very careful of the fluid intake in the evening.

Some kids like to go in the big potty…that is the easiest. There are little cushiony rims that make the opening smaller and less scarier. I used those (although everyone else hated having to move it!) with Andrew and he did great. Some others, including boys, used the training potties. I taught all my boys with the “tuck in” method, not the stand up method…it’s just too hard at this age…eventually when they are tall enough, they will get it.

If you need more help, I think I developed my method after reading Dr. Sears’s Baby Book. Click here for a synapses of what he suggests. It’s an excellent article…the weekend method is what I based my training on.

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  1. Elizabeth says

    June 1, 2010 at 5:42 am

    my daughter does pretty good with going in her own little potty, but we are having trouble transitioning to an adult potty. when we're out in public we can't carry around a toddler potty, so she ends up going on her clothes b/c she is scared of the bigger potty. any tips on this? i guess we should've never introduced the toddler potty!?

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  2. Allyson says

    June 1, 2010 at 5:55 am

    You're getting me motivated. My youngest will be three in October, but I might have to might until then due to the "major change" coming up.

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  3. crissy // mama boss says

    June 1, 2010 at 8:08 am

    i guess i just need to be more strict with myself(?), because that is basically what i have tried (off and on for over a year) with my boy and, so far, we've not been successful…
    he'll be 3 next month, which makes me want to try again soon, but we are putting it off a bit longer, due to the new baby who could arrive any day now! but you've definitely got me motivated to try again ๐Ÿ™‚

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  4. Hildie says

    June 1, 2010 at 9:30 am

    I hate potty training! I hve potty trained six kids and so far that has been my least fave part of parenting. I have had three kids who have almost killed me with refusing to poop in the toilet. For months. And months. I was always really mellow about it, but it just about did me in. There must be some sort of genetic disdain for going #2 in my family.

    But it eventually worked and now we're diaper free! Woohoo!

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  5. Jenni says

    June 1, 2010 at 10:19 am

    Thank you! I am bookmarking this post for a year from now. My son will be 2 and 4 months and the week school gets out will be perfect!

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  6. Julie says

    June 1, 2010 at 11:13 am

    Thanks for writing about your method as I am in the process of training son #3. While I agree wholeheartedly that it is a process that requires patience and consistency, there are times when it may not "click" and it's better for everyone to stop for a month or two. We tried and tried with my eldest but he consistently had multiple accidents daily until his 4th bday at which time he suddenly stayed dry day & night. (Interestingly enough, his 2 1/2 yr old brother also potty trained at the same time. We called it "Read, Feed, & Pee" – I nursed a new baby while perched on the side of the bathtub and read books to son #1 on the big potty and son #2 on the little one.)

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  7. Danielle says

    June 1, 2010 at 12:13 pm

    I did exactly this a year ago and it worked! My last child is only 10 months and I'm already planning when I'm going to start training him. It'll be next November when he's 2 years and 3 months like his older brother!

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  8. Emily says

    June 1, 2010 at 12:15 pm

    This is exactly how I potty trained my two, but I started at 18 months. And although everyone said how hard boys are, my son was trained in one week and my daughter took two to three weeks.

    Emily@remodelingthislife

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  9. Tess Smith says

    June 1, 2010 at 12:47 pm

    i did this with my daughter when she was 26 months. prior to the nakey baby and prior to underwear shopping we bought fred rogers potty book and took out the girl potty video fromt he library. we watched it over and over again for a few days and then we did the potty training. it took her about 2 days to really get it and she's been in undies ever since. she was even dry at night and through nap time.
    i plan on doing this method again with our son. he'll be 2 in september but i'm due with baby number 3 in november… so he might be a bit older than she was.

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  10. Mary says

    June 1, 2010 at 12:54 pm

    I couldn't agree more with your system! It works! And pullups just prolong the agony in my opinion.

    Have you ever read any of John Rosemond's books? He calls this system "Naked and $75". The $75 is for getting carpets cleaned if needed afterwards ๐Ÿ™‚ I never had to do after potty training 4 kids this way – the couple of accidents they had always seemed to be in the kitchen ๐Ÿ™‚ All of mine were ready to head to the store or park with me within about a week or so with no need for pullups – ahhh, freedom!

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  11. Becca says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:05 pm

    You are so much like me! This is exactly how I have potty trained 8 kids, except I do use pull-ups at night time. I had only had one child that was 3 when we were completely potty trained, the others were at 2 1/2. My littlest guy has Down Syndrome and is only 18 months so I guess it will be another ball game :o)

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  12. Heidi of Operation Organization says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:07 pm

    Great tips! My first boy was VERY stubborn for training – he would go hide to poop IN his underwear!!! Little stinker –

    Soon after he started that business I gave him more responsibility of the clean up (had him dump the mess from his own underwear in the toilet and clean himself up with my supervision as well as put the dirty clothes in the wash AND find his new underwear) then he must have decided on his own that all that was too much work and he figured it out.

    Boy #2 will be training soon (we'll be moving soon sometime in August, so I'll be waiting until we're established in our new home before starting though) it's good to get in this mindset again – thanks for sharing – love your no-nonsense explanation. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  13. luvnmy10 says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:13 pm

    I agree–all or nothing! I am weird because I actually enjoy potty training, it is so much time focused on one little child. In a large family, that time is precious for both child and mother. When they are successful, the look on their faces is priceless, totally worth the un-fun moments. Love this post.

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  14. audrey says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:26 pm

    Thanks so much for the tips. I like your approach. I've got a little man I'll be potty training in about 7 or 8 months.

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  15. Anonymous says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:26 pm

    I agree wholeheartedly!!

    Great post–especially about the pullups, which I have always said are glorified diapers.

    This is exactly how we trained our four. The only additional thing we did was that from the time they were 1, we put them on the toilet right before their bath. We made it a little game–get undressed, sit on the potty and talk about when they are bigger how they will put their pee and poop in there. It was just for 10 seconds, but I really think giving kids the vocabulary, letting them watch you, and giving them the understanding that that's what the ultimate goal is really helps.

    Another beef I have besides pullups is that I think busy parents wait too long to start potty training. Sometimes that window of opportunity (which is often a few months after they turn 2) is gone. Some children, when they start older, realize that what happens in the potty can be used in a power struggle and that they can win!

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  16. Colleen says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:30 pm

    Alrighty, Maggie will be starting soon!! She just turned 2.5 today!!!

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  17. Amber@Munchkin Land says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:37 pm

    We are heading down potty training lane very soon here in the Kellen household. Wish me luck, because you have inspired me to get down to business now; at 2 yr 5 mo. he IS ready….it's the mama that is a bit lazy about it. :-/

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  18. Jenny says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:44 pm

    Thanks for this! This is exactly how I trained my daughter at 2 years old. My son is currently 3 years and 4 months and we had no luck at all until now. Last week we started again and all is smooth. Although if we don't take him every 30 minutes he is just as content to pee in his pants–and pooping is a no go. I hope it will all come together soon, we have vacation in 3 weeks out of state and I sure don't want to take any steps back!
    Thanks for confirming that I am doing it right. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  19. Two Little Tots says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:45 pm

    Great tips…my doctor shared these tips with me as well when I was having issues with one of the girls going poop on the potty. Tell them they can ask to poop in a diaper, but they need to do it in the bathroom and them move them to the potty with a diaper on. It worked here…she didn't like sitting on the potty with a diaper on to poop. And to help at night, he told me to keep underwear on and put a diaper or pull on over the underwear…it is all about getting them use to the feel of the underwear at night to help them stay dry.

    We are still working on the other one, and she is doing great.

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  20. Anonymous says

    June 1, 2010 at 1:48 pm

    I totally agree about the Pull-ups! When our next child is ready to be trained I will not make that mistake again ๐Ÿ™‚ Great post – we train alike – haha! AND – love the new header – so bright and colorful – very summer…

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  21. Dixie Redmond says

    June 1, 2010 at 2:33 pm

    This is interesting reading. I have two kids, one with special needs and one without special needs. My son with special needs did eventually learn but it was much later.

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  22. Christy @ MCH PHOTOGRAPHY says

    June 1, 2010 at 2:36 pm

    Thanks so much! I totally needed this post today.
    I have a 2yr old., that just turned two on 5/7.
    I am wanting to start potty training but just wasn't sure where/when/how to start. I dig your method and will definatly give that a try!

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  23. Unknown says

    June 1, 2010 at 2:59 pm

    Timely post! We are on day 2 of potty training my newly-turned 3 year old. This is my second boy to train and I agree that Pull Ups are awful! We use them at nap and night but it's underwear for the rest of the day. I bought small prizes (I call them "Potty Prizes") and they live in a clear bowl on top of the fridge so he can see but can't touch. ๐Ÿ˜‰ He pees/poops and gets a prize. By the time we've run out of Potty Prizes, it has clicked and we no longer need them. We move to stickers or maybe some M&M's and that's it! My oldest trained in 1 week when he was 3 years 3 mos and the younger one is doing VERY well thus far! I hope to have him trained by the end of the week! Crossing my fingers…. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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  24. jeana says

    June 1, 2010 at 3:20 pm

    Thank you for this! We are just at that age over here and getting ready to get started!

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  25. Tonya Gunn says

    June 1, 2010 at 3:25 pm

    I agree 100% – we were terrible about training our first three and they took forever.
    Our fifth was two and no I need to pick a week to do it with our 2 year four month old – it is time. He goes on the toilet, just no consistency – but it is time. After our guests leave next week.
    Thanks for this great post.
    Warm wishes, Tonya

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  26. PILCHERS says

    June 1, 2010 at 3:44 pm

    i am so glad you stated NO PULL UPS! i never bought a single package with all 4 of my kids! I tell people all the time..its a delaying method!

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  27. Kimberly says

    June 1, 2010 at 3:47 pm

    I hate potty training. My baby turns 2 in August so I guess that means I'll start training sometime between Nov. and Feb. Yuck. I wish he was the magic age during the summer. You are not the first person to mention the magic age. Maybe there really is something to it. My oldest two boys were trained at age 3. The first got it on day 1 and the 2nd took forever, and it was pure hell. I'm starting earlier with the baby.

    Oh and I firmly believe that peeing standing up is a privilege and not a right. A privilege that has to be earned. Good luck.

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  28. Unknown says

    June 1, 2010 at 4:30 pm

    I just want to back up what you said. My son was pottied trained in 2 days doing it exactly as you just described. He was 2 in May and pottied trained in Sept. That would be 2.3 years old. If you wait till 3 they are too smart and will fight you and drag out the process. My mother raised 6 children and she was the one who told me to potty train my son it worked for all 6 of us and nobody took more than 5 days. Like you said dedicate yourself to the task, stay home and do it before they turn 3…Great advice.

    Erin

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  29. Pam says

    June 1, 2010 at 4:54 pm

    LOVE the new header Sarah!!

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  30. C and M says

    June 1, 2010 at 5:16 pm

    My son is only 16 months old and I find myself agreeing with you on so many topics. I am a parent educator and this is the method I suggest for clients. I don't have much personal experience in this area but have read about several methods and feel that this makes the most sense. It's logical and you explained it perfectly.

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  31. Bec says

    June 1, 2010 at 5:27 pm

    Ugh- this so does not make me excited to have kids ๐Ÿ˜‰ I have a friend who has potty trained her baby since birth. It is crazy. He still gets to wear diapers, but most of the time he goes in the potty, but he isn't even a year old! She just holds him over the toilet and he goes. Crazy.

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  32. Morris five says

    June 1, 2010 at 6:11 pm

    I am starting to potty train my 2 year 4 month old next week. I hate PT so much and he is my #5 also! Ugg, he is so stubborn. Wish me luck. I like everything you said. Last time I had to do it was with my 6 year old daughter with autism and that has been infinitely more difficult than this will be. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  33. Chinny and Poom says

    June 1, 2010 at 6:27 pm

    I have practically the same potty training technique. My first potty trained soooo early 18 months. She did not like the feeling of a poopy diaper. It was miraculous. My Abby just turned 2 Feb 26. At 2 years 3 months she was ready. She basically trained herself. She was so easy. 48 hours later she was fully trained. No diapers is such a blessing. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  34. Maureen says

    June 1, 2010 at 6:33 pm

    Yes! This is exactly what I did with two exceptions. I absolutely should have started earlier. I waited until he was three + and that was a big error. The other thing I should have known was he hated me telling other people and hated me jumping around. Once he told me to "zip it" with the praise, and I did, he went on a regular basis.

    Now, onto number two….

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  35. Laura says

    June 1, 2010 at 7:10 pm

    In my experience (I have 4 kids, and we have been diaper free for almost 2 years now), trying to potty train too early is a mistake too. I can't tell you how many times over the years I have had friends tell me their kid is potty trained at 2, or by 2, and then every time they come to my house they have an accident! My 3 older kids all potty-trained right after turning 3 and for me that was the magic age. They NEVER had accidents after the initial week or so of all-out potty training. My youngest REALLY wanted to start using the potty, even though she was barely 2, and so we potty trained her…and until she was about 3 she would have random accidents anyway!! SOOOoooo, the take home lesson for me (if anyone has made it this far…sorry for the uber long comment), is that kids may have their own timeline and earlier isn't necessarily better!

    Also, I learned to talk to them about it a LONG time before beginning to officially potty train. When I would change their diapers I would tell them that when they were a little older they would go to the bathroom in the potty..read them books about using the potty, etc. I think all of that helps with the kids learning all those new things they need to know to use the potty.

    Thanks for the great blog!

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  36. Melissa says

    June 1, 2010 at 7:14 pm

    Sarah~
    I love your new header. My favorite so far. I so agree with the biting the bullet and just staying home and putting your heart and soul into it. My 3 yr old is still using pullups at night, but yes, they are not good for the training…

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  37. Amanda @ Serenity Now says

    June 1, 2010 at 7:27 pm

    My little one (she's two) is just now starting to get interested in the potty again. She snuck into the bathroom and fell bottom first into the potty two months ago while I was washing dishes. She's been terrified of the toilet ever since.

    I had to wait until something "clicked" with my older daughter. She was two and a half when she did the whole potty training thing. We had tried and tried at home with no results, but she saw some other girls doing it at Vacation Bible School and decided that was it. No accidents or anything after she made her mind up! We used pull-ups at night time for awhile b/c she couldn't stay dry at night, but undies all the way during the day time. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  38. Frugal Chic Living says

    June 1, 2010 at 8:39 pm

    My middle son is finally potty trained – except he can't wear underwear?? Help!

    Has anyone had this problem? He goes cammando during the day (wearing elastic waist pants) and has no problems going in the potty, but if I try to put underwear on him, he has an accident within 20 minutes. It's as if the feeling of having something tight on makes him go.

    Will my kid never wear underwear? Should I buy him loose boxer shorts? I'm trying not to stress about it, at least he's done with diapers!

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  39. meg duerksen says

    June 1, 2010 at 10:48 pm

    i agree 100%.
    i was just lazy and waited till 3 years old.

    i love your new header.
    ๐Ÿ™‚

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  40. Rana says

    June 1, 2010 at 11:04 pm

    I wish I had had this advice when I was potty training my twins. We did okay, but it would get so frustrating at times. I'm sending this link to my sister. She will appreciate it when the time comes.

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  41. Tracey says

    June 1, 2010 at 11:44 pm

    This post came at the perfect time!! Our 2nd is 2 yrs and 2 mos and I am expecting our 3rd in December. I think we will train her this month and I needed a refresher!

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  42. Lapiz de la Guerra says

    June 2, 2010 at 12:15 am

    I wondered how you did yours! I love all of your motherly advice and wisdom and we're at that stage with our daughter now. Have you ever stuck the big kid panties inside a diaper and tried it that way? A friend of mine recommended it and I am a little weirded out by that, but I guess it would work. Thanks for posting this!

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  43. From All Stitched Up says

    June 2, 2010 at 12:22 am

    I wish you had been my friend when I did this. You really have a great attitude. Best of Luck. I'll be looking forward to hearing the results.

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  44. {cindy} says

    June 2, 2010 at 1:47 am

    I agree with it all…awesome!
    We waited a bit in our home too and it went so much faster then some of our friends who started much earlier and had to drag out tons of M&M's!:)
    Enjoy the night!

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  45. carebear7951 says

    June 2, 2010 at 4:06 am

    I agree with almost everything you said! I'm done with potty training #3 and only have one more to go (but he's only 6 mos old!) Here is where I disagree:
    1. We use pull-ups but only at night (rather than diapers).
    2. Not all children will do the night-time thing so easily. My 3yo who potty trained VERY easily (surprisingly enough b/c nothing else has been easy with her) is still in pull-ups at nap and bed!
    3. We had anal retention issues with both girls. The second one I allowed to poop in diapers for a while. She still had to tell me she needed to go but b/c she was afraid/resistant to go on the potty we'd put a diaper on her just for that. It saved us lots of trouble. Our first had fissures and held it for days, etc, etc. We ended up at the GI dr…it was bad.
    Just my 2cents worth though. ๐Ÿ˜‰ I love your blog. The real-ness of it.

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  46. April Westerhold says

    June 2, 2010 at 4:49 am

    Did you find that there was a big difference in boys and girls? My oldest, a boy, was not potty-trained until he was almost 3 1/2!! In his defense, I was way too freaked out, embarassed, upset, mad, etc about it and he realized that he had "controlled" Mommy.

    I was a totally different Mommy with my girl, 2, and she was potty-trained in about 3 days. You are right, I started her potty-training at about 2 years 7 months and she caught right on. We've had a handful of accidents but nothing major (all pee). I kept her naked all day long and made her go in to sit on the potty quite frequently. She was so easy.

    I have one more boy to go (he is only 11 months now) and I am wondering if boys are just slower or Mommy is??

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  47. mholgate says

    June 2, 2010 at 5:28 am

    Potty training my last one right now…this is a very helpful post.

    What happened to your post about answering questions part 3? When I click on the link it tells me page not found.

    I'm really soaking up all this advice. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  48. April says

    June 2, 2010 at 11:18 pm

    all this is great information and I am thankful for it. Does anyone have carpet spot cleaning tips?

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  49. vera says

    June 3, 2010 at 12:30 am

    I'm so going to have to remember this post when the time comes for Henry to potty train! I'm spoiled so far with two girls, one who completely on her own potty trained herself at 18 months and then two years later completely on her own potty trained her sister. No kidding.

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  50. crissy // mama boss says

    June 3, 2010 at 4:05 am

    I've been thinking about this, and realized I have a question for you:
    What (if any) role does your husband play in the potty training of your kids?

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  51. Sarah says

    June 3, 2010 at 3:32 pm

    He helps when he's home of course, and on weekends. But I find that I am the one who has the whole system going all day…and since I'm in the thick of it, I'm more aware of the when, what, where and why of how it is happening for each particular child.

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  52. Anonymous says

    June 4, 2010 at 11:12 pm

    Thank you! My son was 3 on Monday. Read your potty training blog Wednesday. Thursday- 8 underwear changes, Friday- same DRY undies all day! It's a miracle! Pull-ups are an invention of the devil!

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  53. SuzQuez says

    August 4, 2010 at 9:50 pm

    I had 5 girls. Girl #1 I fought with at about 2. Wouldn't poop for a LONG time. Many struggles. The rest of the girls I just let them do it on their own when they were 3. I think boys at about 4. One daughter I caught trying to change her own poopy diaper. That's when I knew it was time for her.

    Clean-up: Pee–I use water with a little vinegar–pour it on the place and put a folded up towel on top and dance on the towel to pull the liquid into the towel. Poop–you'll need soap and water/or some cleaner to get the germs up. Wet and dance on a towel at the end.

    I love that idea of little boys' just tucking it to pee. I know a 10 ten year that needs to do that now, before the privilege of standing again. ; )

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  54. Shawni says

    August 6, 2010 at 3:27 am

    Sarah, I had to come back and read this tonight…I'm going crazy trying to potty train Lucy. It's killing me! Thanks for the reminder that it'll all be ok and to be patient!

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  55. Heidi of Operation Organization says

    January 7, 2011 at 3:52 pm

    we're now in full on potty traing mode 'round our parts – I linked to this post today – thanks!

    ~heidi

    http://www.wonderwomanwannabe.com

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  56. Health With Lisa says

    February 23, 2011 at 4:42 pm

    I couldn't agree more with your tips! I potty trained my son using these same tips (Just Say No To Pull Ups!!) Potty training definitely takes ALOT of patience and I think it's one of the hardest parts of parenting.

    My son was fully potty trained in days once I got rid of the pull ups and went to underwear. Pull Ups are confusing and a waste of money (and they leak!). After we switched to underwear, there was no more diapers, except for bedtime. He was potty trained at 2 years, 4 months.

    Today is Day 1 with Potty Training my 2 year old daughter! Wish me luck! : )

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  57. Summer says

    March 29, 2011 at 11:33 pm

    Thankyou for sharing this! Because of this, I think I might try training my 2 year old boy sooner than later. He's 2 and 4 months. I was going to wait till he was 3.

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  58. jennifer says

    August 8, 2011 at 3:29 pm

    I just came back to refresh myself on your methodโ€ฆ today is day 1 of potty training my second boy, who will be 2 yrs 3 mo tomorrow. I didn't train his brother until he was almost 3, but I know this one is ready now. Thanks so much for your tips!

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  59. Laura Lee says

    August 9, 2011 at 4:19 pm

    Just want to thank you again for this post! I used this with my second and it worked like a charm, now I am re-reading as I am in the trenches with my third little boy. Its very encouraging!

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  60. Paula says

    August 18, 2011 at 1:07 am

    I am forever indebted to you! My daughter is 3 years and 5 months and it has been a battle to get her to go on the potty. Out of frustration, I searched for "potty training tips" on Pinterest. Your article popped up. I immediately changed my approach and guess what? She pottied on the potty chair seven times that afternoon! She only has had accidents upon waking in the morning. I don't have to pester her to go, she just does! If someone would have told me that she'd be nearly completely potty trained within a day or two, I would not have believed it! Your method works! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

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  61. Emily says

    November 16, 2011 at 7:30 am

    Thanks for sharing your tested methods! We've been talking about potty training for months and my 2 1/2 year old decided she wants to. The trouble is there aren't any weeks we don't have anything going on so she has been in pullups b/c I'm not going to be the mom that lets my kid have an accident at piano lessons or church and whatnot. Anyway, I'm going to try underwear in the pullup on Thursday. She has managed to take care of her business a few times, which is encouraging, but not consistently. Thanks for the reminder to be patient!

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  62. mymothermode says

    December 23, 2011 at 12:11 pm

    Our long weekend of the cold turkey switch to underwear (we were so excited!) -turned into a loonnngggg six months of poop in undies….some pullups ensued due to lack of new furniture budget! And no stickers or over the top praise for this stubborn boy (#3)….only gumballs. And that -plus a whole lot of nonchalance- only gets us #1.

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  63. Raluca says

    February 1, 2012 at 3:35 pm

    Dear Sarah, you've inspired me too. Many many thanks!!!
    http://www.blue-jeans-girl.blogspot.com/2012/02/how-we-did-it-potty-training.html

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  64. Angelica says

    February 21, 2012 at 11:29 pm

    So glad i found this post! Im wanting to potty train my little girl – shes 15 months old now – and i had no idea where to start but this has helped me loads. Thank you

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  65. Makayla says

    June 3, 2012 at 1:35 am

    How do you know when to give up? It's been one week and it's awful. I'm giving it another week. I bought a carpet cleaner.

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  66. Mel says

    June 25, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    My oldest is 2 years and 5 months and I'm just researching about potty training, thinking I need to take the plunge. But I have NO IDEA where to start!!! So my first thought was, see what Sarah has to say. ๐Ÿ™‚ You have been my lifesaver as I navigate through motherhood, and you are always the first person I look to. THANK YOU for documenting your journey and all your thoughts.

    I have a potty training question……. when you potty trained your babies, were they already in a big kid bed (and not a crib)? My son is still in a crib so I'm wondering if I need to get him out of that before potty training.

    Also, do you have any posts on transitioning from crib to bed? My son LOVES his crib and I think he would stay in there until he's off to college if it were up to him. He's never tried climbing out, and when we talk about moving to a bed he starts crying.

    Thank you for everything, Sarah.

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    • Sarah says

      June 26, 2014 at 2:49 am

      Hi Mel-
      My kids were always in a bed when I potty trained them, but sometimes it was just a mattress on the floor. Can you do a slow slow transition with the crib? Lower it to floor somehow if it works like that, or take off the one side, or recreate with just mattress on the floor? He probably doesn't understand what "moving to a bed" means maybe…sometimes what kids think is so different than what reality really is-he probably hears "some huge change" instead of what it really is. I wouldn't do both things at once though-I would start with the crib change and once that transition progresses than do the potty training.
      Hope this helps Mel!

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I love my home and I hope you do also. With all t I love my home and I hope you do also.  With all the imperfections and maintenance it requires, when I pull up and walk in I want to stay, to relax, to feel safe, for daily life to be easy, and to care for "home". I want simplicity, ease, convenience.  To me when my home is simple, without being filled to the brim of things that just take up space I love it best.  I hope if you've participated fully or even partially as time allowed in 40 Bags in 40 Days you've found that joy and pride in your home.  I plan to share more little challenges and tips as the year proceeds to trouble shoot areas and keep maintenance effortless and the house love flowing.  Daily life in our homes should bring us joy and ease while we care for our families, we should be thoughtful stewards of our money and of our time and simple living is the answer to that. 
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I think this is one of the best things about the 4 I think this is one of the best things about the 40 Bag decluttering process.  When I know what I have and have removed all that I don't, it cultivates more discretion and caution about what I bring back in.  I think there is also some realization of how much money is wasted on fads, or thoughtless purchases.  It's quite eye-opening.  I've become so much more careful, and find we all take better care of things, as do my children.
The final week of 40 Bags in 40 Days! I've tackle The final week of 40 Bags in 40 Days!  I've tackled all the areas of my home with exception of my oldest daughter's room (not the photo)- which she is excited to work on this week.
The simpler the room, the easier it is to clean an The simpler the room, the easier it is to clean and straighten up.  And then the more enjoyable it is to actually sit in that room.  It's not a hard equation, all it takes is ruthless purging-and not just little things but larger items also.  Functional furniture is the key and very few decorative pieces especially when children are in the home, makes life so much easier. 
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As we head into the last week of the 40 Bags in 40 As we head into the last week of the 40 Bags in 40 Days Challenge I'm hearing from so many of you what a difference it has made in your appreciation of your homes, a certain contentment, and at the same time a thrill of looking in on the organized kitchen, closet and living space.  I agree!  I love purging, cleaning and organizing a space and then going back later that day just to get that wonderful sense of accomplishment.  It makes such a difference! 
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A lighter, fresher, calmer home is the result of de-cluttering.  I even had a participant who had been planning on listing her home, start 40 Days just to get her house ready to sell, and then was so ruthless in the process and also thrilled by the results that they decided to stay put in what seemed like a new home to them.  What a savings of time, money and energy. 
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Next week I will be talking maintenance and answer all questions! โ˜€๏ธ
Tips For Shared Kids Rooms- This bedroom has seen Tips For Shared Kids Rooms-
This bedroom has seen every configuration possible.  With kids spread out 18 years apart, I've had to be creative over the years-which I think is the key to sharing rooms.  It is all possible-I consider it a rare luxury and privilege to not have to share a room although I know that is not the norm today. 
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I like to create a simple look with white furniture (this ends up making room transitions easier also when moving someone out and someone else in.) I also like to match bedspreads for a cohesive look. 
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Clip on bed lights save space. 
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A simple shared book shelf can hold a child's special books and knick knacks and if necessary can be assigned per shelf.
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When my kids were younger I had my dad build me a large wooden roll out box for under each bed.  This held each child's toys. 
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All clothes are kept in a closet instead of dressers to save space.
I feel like I bailed on everyone following 40 Bags I feel like I bailed on everyone following 40 Bags progress and tips.  My excuse is the stomach flu ravaging us all here in the last week with me being the last to fall and the slowest to recover.  On top of that the weekend before I tried to roller blade (don't even ask how many steps I made it) and majorly bit it.  Thankfully I think I just sprained my arm. So I've been using one arm for nursing sick children back to health, and doing whatever cleaning and cooking and straightening I can do.  Alas, last week was a wash.  We have two weeks to go.  I'd like to continue and end on a high note.  How about you?  Even a little de-cluttering counts! Spring is in the air and I can't wait to throw open my windows and let fresh clean air circulate through my fresh clean orderly home. โ˜€๏ธ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒฑ
Especially where kids are concerned- we tend to th Especially where kids are concerned- we tend to think that the more things they have the happier and more occupied and loved they will feel.  Nothing can replace human interaction and I've found that too many toys has the reverse affect.  They cause overwhelm-just like us - we'd rather sit in an orderly space than one filled with too many things to do and too much stuff.
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When it comes to kids closets here are some tips-
1. Hand me downs don't all have to be received.  Or received at all.  Be choosy and keep just what they will use and need.
2. When children are presented with too many choices, tension and acrimony can exist.  Being able to open a closet with a reasonable amount of outfits can create more peace.
3. Cultivating independence in care of clothes is easier when there is less and the space is simplified and organized. 
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