I'll start with a few disclosures.
-This is NOT a traditional budget system with daily bank balances! It is more about keeping track of where and when and what you spend your money on every month.
-Jeff takes care of the "big" stuff in our house. That means investments, mortgages, retirement things. I try to pay attention when he explains these things to me but usually I just have glassy eyes and start thinking about what's on the menu for dinner. What interests him (the big stuff) is not what interests me (the little stuff). He doesn't want to think about the little stuff, and I don't want to think about the big stuff. How perfect is that!
-I spend most of the money on a day-to-day basis, running this household. My brain feels SO much better when I am aware of, in control of, and accountable for where our money goes.
The Notebook:
To me, this budget notebook is FUN! I like setting monthly and yearly goals and challenges, I like being able to make thoughtful splurges that I patiently waited for, I like the feeling of peace it gives me. My older kids definitely know about my budget notebook, and I am hoping that good money-management is sinking into their cute little brains.
I don't record things in my notebook like household bills (electric, phone, etc), gas, tuition, car repairs, ortho bills. I don't "control" those...they are just "musts" for us- meaning I can't really manipulate them, most of them come out automatically, and I don't want to waste my time recording them. (But you could certainly add a category or two to this system if you wanted to.)
I concern myself with these 4 categories to keep it simple:
FOOD-I shop at a super-store type of place so this also includes small household items and cleaning supplies.
ATM ($)-our cash withdraws.
EXTRA-clothes, books, gifts, school supplies, everything that's not food pretty much.
OUT-all eating out, movies, entertainment, tickets to events that sort of thing.
When I first started my budget notebook, I went back and recorded an entire year's worth of spending from my old bank statements. Since we pay for almost everything with a bank credit card it was easy to see where I was spending our money. You can find these on-line and/or you might have paper statement sent to you. (I used the paper statements of course.) I think this is a crucial step because you can't have realistic expectations and goals if you don't know what you spent last year. And thinking you spend $800 a month on food, only to find out that's it actually $1400 is quite eye-opening! Trust me, I learned to stay away from Target when I saw how much I was spending every time I walked through the doors. The whole process is a LOT easier than it sounds. I took me a few hours at the most.
Here is an example of a monthly page in my notebook:
The page on the left is where I write some of the things I am already aware that I need to spend money on that month, just so I know where I stand coming into the month.
The page on the right is divided into four columns. The top of the page where those two $ signs are, I write our account balance on the 1rst of the month, and then on the last day of the month. I can see the big picture that way.
I record every single purchase in these categories.
I wait to the end of the month to record it in the actual notebook though. (I explain why below.)
I have a piece of notebook paper taped to the inside of "my" drawer in the kitchen that looks like a duplicate of the page above (minus the cute stickers, how dorky, you'd think I was 5) and EVERYTIME I walk in the house after making any purchase I immediately record it. (I round numbers, no decimals, just to simplify it more.) I always ask for my receipt, put it in my wallet, and then whip them out when I get home, or if I am in a rush, throw it on top of my slip of paper in my drawer to record later.
Jeff will tell me if he spent any money also, and I record that. This becomes a habit very quickly!
Accountability and awareness and simplicity is why I love this budget system. Here is the piece of notebook paper in my drawer. I keep a calculator handy to add things up once in a while. I have a set amount that I want to stay under in each category, that I decided upon in the beginning of the year.
At the end of the month, I sit in front of the computer with my taped-drawer-page and my bank statement on the bank's website and transfer them into my budget notebook-I can double check my work and see if we missed anything and that everything is accurate on the bank statement.
I also have a once-a-year page that looks like this. I can see what I spend in each category by the month, and add it all up at the end of the year. I can then average what I spend. For instance by doing some simple math (with the calculator of course!) I know that last year I spent an average of $326 a week on food. Holey Moley! This year I have implemented some new things (that could be a whole other post) and I have spent an average $195 in the food category once a week. Jeff and I also sit down at the end of the year and talk about general financial goals, wants/needs, etc.
Here is an example of what one month looks like, so you can see that I AM messy because I do this quickly. I usually just write the store after the amount so I can see where the money went and maybe a one-word description also.
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Did I make it sound so much more complicated then it is? Let me know if you have any questions and I will answer them.
I'm so doing this! Thanks Sarah.
ReplyDeleteLove this! I'd love to hear what you are doing to save in the grocery department since I am up in the 250 range a week and have 4 kids. I'm going to try this!
ReplyDeleteYou know what I love most about your system? The fact that you embrace your paper-loving self LOL
ReplyDeleteI agree that awareness is key - I've been less aware the last couple of months and am feeling the overwhelm sink in.
Guess what's on my to-do list today? Sorting it all out!
Looks like a clear easy sytem for tracking spending.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea. I should try this especially since I often tell hubby "I don't know where the money went" after a trip to target or the grocery store...
ReplyDeleteThis is a fabulous idea! I too am a paper person, not a computer guru! LOL Thanks for sharing something personal to your family.
ReplyDeleteI do a zero budget on paper and am really trying to stick with it. I also found that I am spending a LOT on groceries every month--as in $1300 to $1500!! I love to cook and have a glass of wine with dinner and have 3 kids. Have started shopping at Wal-mart a lot, using coupons and having simpler dinners once in a while. Would love to hear your ideas of how to trim this budget.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for sharing! For the last few years as we try to budget and save, I have been googling all sorts of crazy things to try and figure out "how much do people spend on their groceries.. "
ReplyDeleteThere are such wide ranges from the extremely frugal to the "I have no idea". We are in the middle.. we don't live on hotdogs and baked beans.. nor do we eat steak more than once a month.. unless it is Flank Steak on sale!
I think the best thing you are teaching your children is: you need to be deliberate with your money choices REGARDLESS of how much money you have.
This will serve them well.. I have seen way too many children get into trouble because they were never taught these things.
I have to admit I get discouraged when I see the people who spend money they do not have, and then walk away from debts .. meanwhile I clip coupons and try to live beneath my means .. and I see my IRA cut in half!! I start having middle age anxiety about the future!!! Oy vey.. being a parent is hard.
This is great, Sarah. My husband and I handle our finances the way you guys do -- he does the 'big' stuff and I do th day-to-day. I really like your 4-column system of keeping track on a daily basis. I always end up with a stack of receipts at the end of the week and try to figure it out then. Needless to say, I miss a lot! I like your idea of keeping a log right in the kitchen. I'm going to try that.
ReplyDeleteMy husband would love you and your notebook. I am the worst at a budget. This past year I went to all cash spending and it has helped a lot. I get to take out my cash on Fridays and it has to last me until the following Friday. So far I have done a pretty good job and I don't have to worry about if I should get something or not. But, your notebook is great! Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I just sat down to set a budget and track our spending but it felt like we were making it way too hard. I love seeing the simplicity of your system. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteLOVE your blog because you are so real and practical. My husband does most of our $$ but wants me to take over. But he wants me to do the fancy computer program which intimidates me. I can do this system! I think I will show him tonight and start tomorrow! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteI too would like to know how you are cutting your food budget?? Food has gotten SO pricey and I spent $90 yesterday at the store and I thought I would spend $50!
Do you keep all of your receipts? I am a very visual person so I also hate using billing/budgeting programs (although I do). But I procrastinate because I hate them so much and end up with a never ending pile of receipts that 'need entered'. AND I appreciate a REAL number for your grocery bill!!! I always know people don't know what they are talking about when they say they 'only' spend $400 a month in groceries - yeah right! Thanks again for your wisdom and darling blog!
ReplyDeleteThank you!! I love this. Boy, my husband and I have been trying (for 13 years) to get a system down and haven't found one yet... what i love is that you just do it.
ReplyDeletei think i've spent too many years trying to get my big picture business professor husband to keep track of the little things that i care about. i feel like you just gave me permission to do this part myself and appreciate the things that he does.
so, thanks!!!
I think simplicity is so crucial to making and sticking with a budget. We have a budget, but have gone away from recording every purchase. I think it is time to revisit it. When I write it down or record it, I am much more accountable.
ReplyDeleteOMG. First, let me say, I'm completely a "paper budgeter" and for someone my age (26) that's really rare. Like, extraordinarly rare. I've been needing something "simple" lately and not as small as a checkbook ledger. I think this is the ABSOLUTE PERFECT thing for me to try. I'm already planning a stop to Target on my way home tonight to buy a spiral notebook.
ReplyDeleteYou are perfectly right in what you say about being aware vs being successful. I need to remember that.
And I just absolutely LOVE that you write out extras for the month. I need that in March when I have car registration due. I always forget until the last week it seems.
Question: If you go to a store for a birthday gift and find grapes for a great deal, do you seperate the amounts in the different columns? What do you if you are reviewing at the end of the month and you have a charge from Walmart for $100.00 on the bank statement that you didn't record and you are not sure what you bought?
ReplyDeleteI love this post! I would love to know how you were able to cut that grocery bill down. That is my biggest budget issue. I only have 3 kids and spending $300 p/ week on food and groceries. I also have another question: What are the cash withdrawals budgeted for? Do they get disperesed in 1 of the other columns also, i.e. food?
ReplyDeleteThanks for the great tips!
What a sweet and simple plan. Love it Sarah. This is such a great way to really see where your money goes. Just made one and hung it in my cabinet!:)
ReplyDeleteLike some of the other comments, I would love to see how you cut your grocery bill so low.:)
thanks again for taking the time to share this.
have a happy day sarah
Your ideas are very do-able - thanks for sharing. So easy - its like "why didn't I think of that!
ReplyDeleteI have read your blog for a while from a Power of Moms link--love it!
ReplyDeleteThis is my first time commenting because this is an area of interest to me---trying to simplify scheduling, budgeting, etc. I have one question:
Do you have a separate vacation fund or how do you handle that?
Thanks!
Over $300 a week on food! I almost had a heart attack. How can you afford that?
ReplyDeleteI only have $100 per week for food, and I wish it were $150-175. But it's just not possible. It gets harder and harder to feed all five kids as they get older, that's for sure. It's tough!
Thank you, thank you for sharing this post.
ReplyDeleteLOVE this, Can't wait to start.
I have a couple of questions:
Do Holiday/B-day/Christmas fit in your extra category?
What about Vacations/Travel is that in your Out category?
If you purchase something for your home or yard:
paint, rug, etc. is that in your extra too?
Lastly, how do you budget for kids' activities:
sports, piano, etc.? Is that in your must section?
Thanks again, I really appreciate you taking the time to post this. So simple, practical, and just all around brilliant. I'm been looking for an easier way to budget all the daily stuff for years.
I thought I saw this question already, but now I can't find it. Sorry if it's a duplicate. I was wondering if you went to your big mega store and bought socks and milk do you separate out your receipt? I love the simplicity of your system. I am totally a list maker, paper user too!
ReplyDeleteAlso, I see a new blog post coming about the grocery budgeting. We have 9 children and spend a pretty penny on groceries. I would love to hear your ideas on cutting down the cost.
Thank you thank you. Have been trying to come up with something fairly easy to do to keep track of some $$ here and this looks like just the sort of thing I'm after. Much appreciated.
ReplyDeleteI must thank you now for the time you are going to save me. Right now I have an excel spreadsheet but something about paper and pencil. I feel like as for getting the info down, it will be much faster...on top of not being distracted by the hundred of other things that I do on the computer that keeps me from getting it logged in. Your organizing ways are simply wonderful!
ReplyDeleteI would love to hear how you spend less than $200/week with 5 kids. I have 4 kids and spend more than that, and mine are all still little (the oldest is 7!). I need to hear your secrets, because I dread grocery shopping because even with a meal plan and a list, I still spend too much, in my opinion.
ReplyDeleteI'm normally the mostly-silent type when reading blogs, but you've brought me out of the dark! Thank you so very much for sharing your system. We have been married for 21 years and have tried numerous budgeting strategies. By-Golly, I think this one will actually work for us! :) I'm a big fan of keeping things simple! :) Thanks again for sharing!
ReplyDeleteRecently I've been looking at how I spend my time to accomplish my domestic tasks and one great question for me is "can this be done when the power is out?" And YES! Your budget system can be done when the power is out.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your simple system.
Thank you for this post!
ReplyDeleteThanks- the idea of rounding up feels liberating. :) I'm curious - do you keep track of how you spend your cash?
ReplyDeleteThis is GENIUS! And it's simple enough that I think I can implement it! :) Thank you for sharing!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the tips - great ideas! I have been trying to blog about some "Money Tips" for my own kids to learn...so it's nice to see other people's ideas too!
ReplyDeleteLove your blog by the way - and your cooking one too - I have gotten the thumbs up all around on a few meals!
Hello!
ReplyDeleteI've just found you site and I think you're so inspiring!
I have an off-subject question: How do you like your cabinets? I love the look of them, but I wanted to make sure they're holding up for you, etc.. Any information would be helpful :)
Found your post on Pinterest and loved this post. Helpful and inspiring!
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Thank you so much, I really needed to do this! I have just spent a good hour going through this years bank statements and sorted out my life!!! I now know what to do when I get a reciept and I am amazed with how much I spent last month on food and fuel!!! Thank you for helping me sort out my money!
ReplyDeleteThis is similar to what my husband and I did, but we plugged it into the computer.. I think it was Microsoft office. It helped us categorize and the computer even put it on graph or pie chart that showed us where we spent what each month. We were able to pay off $50,000 of or debt in two years and just one main income.
ReplyDeleteI love your blog and these posts! I hope its a typo though, where you say you found out you had been spending $1400 a WEEK on food?!?!? that's a month, right? (:
ReplyDeleteYes, typo, thank you for letting me know!
ReplyDeleteHi! I've been busy looking at people's pins on budgeting when I came across this post.
ReplyDeleteGreat write-up. I do the same type of thing .. writing it all down on a messy page first (actually, mine's in a small notebook). It all ends up in the computer, though .. but my husband really wants it all in paper format.
So, I think I'll try your spiral bound notebook approach.
Thank you for the motivation to keep on being frugal!! :)